I just met my new manager for the first time. She hugged me. I didn't realize that hugging was going to be a job requirement.
![]() |
|||||
« It sucks to be back at work | Main | Calling all poetasters »
Whatever happened to a warm and hearty handshake?
So the Fish Said...
Whoever you are, now I place my hand upon you, that you be my poem, I whisper with my lips close to your ear.
- Walt Whitman
Meet the Fish
I want to get a pet duck and keep it in the bathtub.
I am addicted to chap stick and altoids. I am freakishly flexible.
World's Most Beautiful Child

World's Most Handsome Child

Other Important Things
![]() |
Clive Owen |
Design by Emily
© Copyright 2004 SoTheFishSaid.com.
All Rights Reserved.


Comments (24)
Maybe she's heard all about you and just feels *that* close to you already?
Posted by Beth | October 19, 2004 10:43 AM
Perhaps she was hitting on you?
Posted by Pamalamadingdong | October 19, 2004 10:47 AM
Maybe she has clammy hands......
Posted by Jade | October 19, 2004 10:59 AM
wha wha what! isn't that more of a "so sad you're leaving, we'll miss you, blah blah blah" type of a thing? that's kinda creepy if you ask me (did you ask me? cuz if you didn't, i still think that, and if you did, that's my answer) keep us posted to what she does for your first review!
Posted by monique | October 19, 2004 11:29 AM
Hugging on first meeting....may not be a good sign. Unless you're working on Sesame Street.
Posted by Marcia | October 19, 2004 11:46 AM
I'd be a little thrown with that one. I've never been hugged by a boss that I can remember.
Posted by Krush | October 19, 2004 12:01 PM
i have a boss that does that. and she loves to hug you when you're about to cry, which then MAKES you cry.
Posted by laura | October 19, 2004 12:06 PM
At least she's friendly....?
Posted by Dawnie | October 19, 2004 12:17 PM
Yikes!!! Personal space alert! I have personal issues on this and wouldn't know what I'd do if a new boss did that to me. I like my one-foot "personal space sphere", and only select members get to cross the barrier.
I know, I'm a total weirdo.
Posted by Kristi | October 19, 2004 12:32 PM
Yeah, but is she cute?
Posted by Jon in Michigan | October 19, 2004 12:57 PM
That's odd. At least she didn't kiss you!
Posted by donna | October 19, 2004 1:31 PM
I think I might have to quit if my boss hugged me. Then again, he's not really the hugging type, so the odds of that happening are extremely slim.
Posted by Kerry | October 19, 2004 1:38 PM
In the bubble!!! In the bubble!!! Hugs are not cool with me at all at work. Not so much even at church. I don't know you new-boss-lady?!
Posted by myllissa | October 19, 2004 2:03 PM
Maybe...she was just so happy to have you working for her because the last person spent the whole day blogging and never did any work. ;^)
I would have been wierded out too. At least she didn't lean in for a kiss.
Posted by wendy | October 19, 2004 2:15 PM
A hug does seem a little over-enthusiastic. But at least you know she's glad to have you there!
Posted by bad penguin | October 19, 2004 2:20 PM
Mass murderers tend to hug their victims when they meet them for the first time! ;-)
Posted by Jeff A | October 19, 2004 2:39 PM
I am totally a huggy person, but boss? First time meeting? Um...gah? I side-hugged my boss after a few months because she was having a rotten day. I hope that doesn't fall into creepy too. It felt awkward anyway.
Posted by Heather | October 19, 2004 2:45 PM
ACK! I hate huggers. Huggers make me feel all violated and awkward. My God, what if she hugs you every morning when you come to work? EEK! Ask for a raise!!
Posted by Michele | October 19, 2004 2:56 PM
Well, that's a little creepy. I'm a huggy person, but I can't think of a time where I've ever hugged someone the first time we met. Especially a boss. (The thought of hugging my boss? Ewww)
Posted by Kimmer | October 19, 2004 3:04 PM
is she southern?...we hug everyone
Posted by Casey | October 19, 2004 3:05 PM
now, i'm a huggy person. but i don't hug people when i first meet them. unless i've talked to them for a really long time, and even then, i only hug 'em when we're saying goodbye if it seems appropriate. definitely not at work, though. yuck.
Posted by manda | October 19, 2004 3:17 PM
That's just weird. If someone at my work hugged me, I think I would faint.
Posted by DeAnn | October 20, 2004 4:13 AM
I'm all about a good hug, but jeez! I was recently hug-assaulted by a coworker. We're not close. At all. I don't ever remember having a conversation with her. She just hugged me one day as she was leaving. Some people are just random huggers, or just cannot contain the hug. I guess?
Posted by jessica | October 20, 2004 6:43 AM
I have a couple of "higher ups" that hug me. It was a shock at first, but I find it's ok
Posted by cassie-b | October 20, 2004 4:21 PM