Today, just for an adventure and a little much-needed variety, I pried Mia off my boob, put her in the car, and took her to the bank and Starbucks. (I'm still not allowed to lift anything, so I can't move her carseat and therefore our adventure was limited to places with drive-thrus.) I had been a little nervous about driving with Mia in the car, because I am not a very good driver as I tend to forget to pay attention and arrive at my destination with no recollection of how I got there. I think I did pretty well today, although I may have somewhat annoyed my fellow motorists by not once cracking 15 MPH. Come on people, I had my BABY in the car!
The excitement seems to have worn Mia out and she is sound asleep on Chris's lap. This is huge since for the past three days she has screamed any time there wasn't a boob in her mouth. I'm sure I'll be back on duty shortly, but in the meantime I am marveling at the experience of typing with both hands. Much easier this way, you know?
And as a total non sequiter, I would like to offer as evidence that I have a really amazing husband the fact that I have taken a shower every single day since Mia was born. This sometimes means Chris has to face 20 minutes of surprisingly loud screams with no immediate boob access to stop the insanity, but he does it anyway. I feel a little guilty about sneaking off to shower knowing the baby will probably scream the whole time, but I figure a few minutes of unhappiness is better for her than an entire day of cranky, stinky mommy.
Comments (40)
Stinky mommies make sour milk. I'm sure Mia appreciated the decision, especially when the 20 minutes were up and she had access to the boobs again.
Posted by bmh | August 17, 2005 4:16 PM
That's wonderful! Isn't it amazing how life changes and a simple shower becomes a big deal. I'm looking forward to that someday. In the meantime, look at that picture! That (+ you) = one damn fine happy family.
Posted by carrster | August 17, 2005 4:26 PM
That picture is just too cute. I can't believe how much hair Mia has already!
Also, yay showers, and yay for Chris putting up with the screaming while you go and take one.
Posted by Dawnie | August 17, 2005 4:40 PM
Lack of boobsmakes the heart grow fonder :)
Posted by Zoe | August 17, 2005 4:54 PM
Love her hair!
Posted by donna | August 17, 2005 5:15 PM
Wish I had some witty comment to make, but I don't.
I'm glad you guys got out and about for a bit. I am happy it wore her little behind out. And congratulations on having a wonderful hubby.
Posted by Angelia | August 17, 2005 5:42 PM
Probably just a growth spurt. Couple of days and she'll be less all about the boob. Maybe.
Posted by Jenny | August 17, 2005 5:53 PM
What a pretty picture (no offense dad, I'm not calling you pretty just the picture). You've got a lovely family and a lovely blog to read. Luv that purple!
Enjoy, enjoy, this special (difficult) time. And dig those heels in, 'cause it goes too fast.
Posted by Krista | August 17, 2005 6:05 PM
Aww, sweet picture. I'm glad Mia is giving you both a break on the boob bondage.
Posted by Polichick | August 17, 2005 6:08 PM
Hey mama - try a baby bjorn if you can - it's been my saving grace. I just pop her in there - technically it's just carrying the baby which is a-ok to do - and I leave her car seat and go....we've gone to the park, the mall, the neighbors house.... May she finish her growth spurt soon and not be permanantly boob attached. Last night I took migraine med with caffeine - wild night around here.
Posted by shannon | August 17, 2005 6:10 PM
Amen, sister. Don't forget to take care of yourself. Mia may be unhappy for a few moments, but a happy mama means a happier baby. You're [both] doing a great job!
Posted by trb | August 17, 2005 6:32 PM
Never feel bad for taking care of yourself, doll! If you don't take care of you, you can't take care of Mia. Okay, you can but you feel like doody doing it!
About the picture: It cracks me up that Mia got Chris' hair! Priceless!
Posted by doulazanie | August 17, 2005 6:46 PM
OMG, that pic should be framed, it is priceless. you to are one lucky chick ;) and good to hear you are showering, lol...you dont want mia smelling body oder and thinking it means mommy must be near by, lol!
Posted by lizabetty | August 17, 2005 7:14 PM
Funny. My husband ALSO screams anytime there isn't a boob in his mouth.
Wait. That's not what you meant, is it?
Posted by angela marie | August 17, 2005 8:11 PM
Good for you for getting out! Have you tried pacifiers? Perhaps it's just a growth spurt, but looking back, I wish I'd kept trying pacifiers with my first (who was also permanently atteched to my boob).
Also? I'm totally jealous that your Starbucks has a drive thru, that's totally unheard of around here.
Posted by Kris | August 17, 2005 8:14 PM
Totally off the subject... why can't we ever get any cats that like to cuddle? All of the cats we have ever had were non cuddlers. UGH!
Posted by Jess | August 17, 2005 8:42 PM
I noticed that I was getting out so infrequently that I felt strange driving...like I'd lost the coordination for it.
Now I'm back at work and the husband watches the baby. Today he drove us all to the grocery store and had a hard time operating the car, too. It's nice to know he understands now what a day with a baby is like (minus the boob, of course).
Posted by Holly | August 17, 2005 8:45 PM
YOur husband rocks..and that pic is so wonderful, you are blessed :-)
Posted by Nina | August 17, 2005 9:30 PM
Wait-- you have a Starbucks???
Hey, I think Jenny is right. Growth spurt. She'll be off in a couple of days. Prolly.
Posted by jen | August 17, 2005 10:23 PM
That is an amazing shot of Chris, Mia, and kitty. Give it ten years and that will be one of his favorite photos of all time!
Posted by Cori | August 17, 2005 11:10 PM
awww...he's got BOTH babies. ;)
Posted by Sarcomical | August 17, 2005 11:46 PM
If you can't take care of yourself, you cannot take care of anyone else! That is the rule of the universe! Do not stray from it! AND I LOVE the two babies! I am sobbing AGAIN! You guys continue to make me cry! I better check my hormones! maybe I have too many! Grin
Posted by Gypsy | August 17, 2005 11:52 PM
Growth spurt...expect some non-stop sucking at/ or about 3 weeks, 6 weeks, 3 months, and 6 months.
Ahh, those were the days!
Posted by Jaycie | August 18, 2005 12:52 AM
I have the same driving issues as you! And here I thought I was the only one whose mind wandered while driving. Good to know.(Or bad considering how unsafe it is!)
Glad you and Mia got out for a little while. And that's a great picture. Mia's pretty darn cute (love the hair), I think you gusy should definitely keep her. :)
Posted by erin | August 18, 2005 1:01 AM
What would work for me *sometimes* was to take a "not so smelly" shirt that I had worn and put that over the shoulder of the person now holding the boob-wanting screaming baby. It did work for about 15 minutes at a time to soothe them and make them think I actually was there. Though, they do "boob hunt" and that's a bit humorous.
She's a beautiful little girl! I love the full head of hair, reminds me of my daughter when she was just an itsy-bitsy thing!
Posted by happycrazy | August 18, 2005 2:21 AM
yup she has DEFINITELY got Chris's genetics... and his hair do :)
and she is utterly beautiful
Posted by stinkerbell | August 18, 2005 4:59 AM
What a snuggly guy you have! Good to know you're taking care of yourself as well, mucho importante!
Posted by Nic | August 18, 2005 6:29 AM
God Bless the drive-thru Starbucks. I wish we had one closer, it comes in handy even as your children can walk and talk. Sometimes it is easier to keep everyone in the car.
Posted by Nicole | August 18, 2005 8:15 AM
Wait a minute...You aren't supposed to be driving yet!
I know it sounds kinda silly, but you really do use a lot of those muscles while driving. Don't damage yourself out of boredom, okay?
Posted by Sichy | August 18, 2005 8:28 AM
She has so much hair! It looks like enough to put a barret or ribbon in!
Posted by alfredsmom | August 18, 2005 8:35 AM
Aww. Yay for Mia's first road trip! And for daily showering!
Posted by Fraulein N | August 18, 2005 9:11 AM
My baby is the same way, lovin' the boob (she's 5 weeks). I feel bad for my husband too as he often gets only crying time to hold her. As we've found with this one and our previous two, white noise seems to calm her. Our exhaust fan is a big hit right now. Currently she's asleep in her bouncy seat in front of the stove. Good luck, she's a cutie!
Posted by girl | August 18, 2005 9:42 AM
This pic reminds me, how are the kitties adjusting to her?? My cat is just now able to get that close to Madeline and only when it is on our bed with me holding her.
Posted by JuJuBee | August 18, 2005 10:15 AM
They look so great together! I remember the first few pictures of my hubby and the baby. Don't you just want to eat him up? I did! :)
Posted by Laurie | August 18, 2005 10:22 AM
I used to pull the bassinet into the bathroom with me while I took a shower. He'd scream, but at least I knew where he was and what he was up to.
(You three are totally adorable!)
Posted by Queen of Ass | August 18, 2005 10:44 AM
I absolutely love the hair.
Posted by ava | August 18, 2005 10:44 AM
love the picture....
Posted by Shannon | August 18, 2005 4:11 PM
I don't know about the USA but in Canada it was recommended that you wait and astounding 6 weeks to drive after a C-Section. Making it impossible to get to all those post delivery appointments. Imagine being allowed to have sex and drive on the same day! LOL!
Congrats on your perfect girl!Liesl
Posted by liesl | August 18, 2005 6:44 PM
Wait. You have a Starbucks with a drive thru? No fair!
I love that picture and I love that you get a shower everyday! It really is the little things that matter!
Posted by Ms. Q | August 18, 2005 8:25 PM
Sooooooo cute... daddy with his babies. :)
Posted by jaime | August 19, 2005 12:26 PM