I got gifts (ok, I got Target gift cards) for both of Mia's teachers and the preschool music teacher, since music was the highlight of Mia's life this year. But do I have to give a gift to the preschool director? She was very kind to Mia and very patient with me while we worked through (most of) the screaming crying fits about going to school. And if I get a gift for the director, I must have to get a gift for the assistant director too, right? And if I get gifts (more Target gift cards, obviously) do they have to be the same amount I got for the teachers ($25), or can they be less based on these people having less interaction with my child?
It isn't the children that need to come with manuals, it is all the rest of it.