October 19, 2004

Whatever happened to a warm and hearty handshake?

I just met my new manager for the first time. She hugged me. I didn’t realize that hugging was going to be a job requirement.

Posted by Beth at October 19, 2004 10:34 AM
Comments

Maybe she's heard all about you and just feels *that* close to you already?

Posted by: Beth at October 19, 2004 10:43 AM

Perhaps she was hitting on you?

Posted by: Pamalamadingdong at October 19, 2004 10:47 AM

Maybe she has clammy hands......

Posted by: Jade at October 19, 2004 10:59 AM

wha wha what! isn't that more of a "so sad you're leaving, we'll miss you, blah blah blah" type of a thing? that's kinda creepy if you ask me (did you ask me? cuz if you didn't, i still think that, and if you did, that's my answer) keep us posted to what she does for your first review!

Posted by: monique at October 19, 2004 11:29 AM

Hugging on first meeting....may not be a good sign. Unless you're working on Sesame Street.

Posted by: Marcia at October 19, 2004 11:46 AM

I'd be a little thrown with that one. I've never been hugged by a boss that I can remember.

Posted by: Krush at October 19, 2004 12:01 PM

i have a boss that does that. and she loves to hug you when you're about to cry, which then MAKES you cry.

Posted by: laura at October 19, 2004 12:06 PM

At least she's friendly....?

Posted by: Dawnie at October 19, 2004 12:17 PM

Yikes!!! Personal space alert! I have personal issues on this and wouldn't know what I'd do if a new boss did that to me. I like my one-foot "personal space sphere", and only select members get to cross the barrier.

I know, I'm a total weirdo.

Posted by: Kristi at October 19, 2004 12:32 PM

Yeah, but is she cute?

Posted by: Jon in Michigan at October 19, 2004 12:57 PM

That's odd. At least she didn't kiss you!

Posted by: donna at October 19, 2004 01:31 PM

I think I might have to quit if my boss hugged me. Then again, he's not really the hugging type, so the odds of that happening are extremely slim.

Posted by: Kerry at October 19, 2004 01:38 PM

In the bubble!!! In the bubble!!! Hugs are not cool with me at all at work. Not so much even at church. I don't know you new-boss-lady?!

Posted by: myllissa at October 19, 2004 02:03 PM

Maybe...she was just so happy to have you working for her because the last person spent the whole day blogging and never did any work. ;^)

I would have been wierded out too. At least she didn't lean in for a kiss.

Posted by: wendy at October 19, 2004 02:15 PM

A hug does seem a little over-enthusiastic. But at least you know she's glad to have you there!

Posted by: bad penguin at October 19, 2004 02:20 PM

Mass murderers tend to hug their victims when they meet them for the first time! ;-)

Posted by: Jeff A at October 19, 2004 02:39 PM

I am totally a huggy person, but boss? First time meeting? Um...gah? I side-hugged my boss after a few months because she was having a rotten day. I hope that doesn't fall into creepy too. It felt awkward anyway.

Posted by: Heather at October 19, 2004 02:45 PM

ACK! I hate huggers. Huggers make me feel all violated and awkward. My God, what if she hugs you every morning when you come to work? EEK! Ask for a raise!!

Posted by: Michele at October 19, 2004 02:56 PM

Well, that's a little creepy. I'm a huggy person, but I can't think of a time where I've ever hugged someone the first time we met. Especially a boss. (The thought of hugging my boss? Ewww)

Posted by: Kimmer at October 19, 2004 03:04 PM

is she southern?...we hug everyone

Posted by: Casey at October 19, 2004 03:05 PM

now, i'm a huggy person. but i don't hug people when i first meet them. unless i've talked to them for a really long time, and even then, i only hug 'em when we're saying goodbye if it seems appropriate. definitely not at work, though. yuck.

Posted by: manda at October 19, 2004 03:17 PM

That's just weird. If someone at my work hugged me, I think I would faint.

Posted by: DeAnn at October 20, 2004 04:13 AM

I'm all about a good hug, but jeez! I was recently hug-assaulted by a coworker. We're not close. At all. I don't ever remember having a conversation with her. She just hugged me one day as she was leaving. Some people are just random huggers, or just cannot contain the hug. I guess?

Posted by: jessica at October 20, 2004 06:43 AM

I have a couple of "higher ups" that hug me. It was a shock at first, but I find it's ok

Posted by: cassie-b at October 20, 2004 04:21 PM